#29 Why You’re Still Unhappy After Success with Jaemin Frazer

What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t external, but your own opinion of yourself? In this thought-provoking episode, Luke sits down with Jaemin Frazer to explore the deep roots of insecurity, how it quietly drives achievement, and why many high performers eventually hit a wall of burnout and unhappiness.

Jaemin breaks down how most of our limiting beliefs are formed before the age of seven, why insecurity is really a fear of being seen, and how healing it can help us move from striving to alignment.

They also unpack the fear of losing your edge when you let go of your insecurities, and why true performance actually thrives when you stop fighting yourself.

Key Takeaways: 

• Discover why insecurity isn’t a flaw but a hidden belief formed before you were seven.
• Learn how childhood opinions quietly shape your drive, success, and burnout.
• Hear why the same insecurity that fuels ambition eventually drains your peace.
• Find out what really happens when you stop chasing validation and start trusting yourself.
• Explore the exact process to uncover and rewrite the story you tell about who you are.
• Understand why real confidence begins when you stop fighting yourself and come home.

Guest Bio: 

Jaemin Frazer is an award-winning life coach, author, and founder of The Insecurity Project. Recognised as one of Australia’s top personal development coaches, he helps leaders and entrepreneurs overcome insecurity and self-doubt so they can live and lead with confidence.

Learn more about Jaemin:

Visit his website here

Follow him on Instagram

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Curious AF is a podcast for people who want more out of life than just ticking boxes. Hosted by Luke Biermann, entrepreneur, father of three, and relentless explorer of human potential, the show dives deep into the conversations that matter.

From endurance sports and entrepreneurship to psychedelics, parenting, spirituality, and self-discovery, Curious AF explores how we can live with greater purpose, connection, and fulfilment.

Expect raw, unfiltered stories and thoughtful insights from people who are redefining success, breaking cycles, and choosing to live with intention.

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